Reblogged from: Five Easy Steps to Create Healthy Family Dynamics!.
Five Easy Steps to Create Healthy Family Dynamics! In order to help you create healthy family dynamics, I am going to ask you to play a little game with me for just a moment.
What happens when you try to fit a square peg into a round hole? You can push and twist and turn and shove and all you will get is resistance. Sure, you might wear down the corners a bit from trying to force the square shape to conform to the round opening but the reality is that it is never never going to fit properly.
You have tried your hardest, given it your all and now you are left feeling frustrated and anxious. And in the end you have most likely damaged the peg and the hole from attempting to make them one. Although you see the beauty of the square peg by itself with its unique shape and size and many possible uses and recognize the value of the round hole offering equally important aspects, you have decided, for whatever reason, that they should be intertwined and become one unit in the same.
Your frustration brings you to the point of throwing your hands in the air, feeling defeated and worn out, wanting nothing more than to walk away…but your heart won’t let you…
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